Wednesday, October 18, 2006

5:23am - My hopes and spirits are high this morning. Last night, I got a call from my sister Betty around 11pm saying that Eric opened his eyes. Betty said that she was talking to him telling him how handsome he looks and that the mustache he's growing (since he's been in the hospital) makes him very attractive and something about California when he suddenly opened his eyes. His mother saw this and they called for the nurse. The nurse asked them to tell Eric to close his eyes (to see if he's capable of understanding), his mother asked him to close his eyes, which Eric did and opened them again. His mother accidentally moved her hand across his face and he reacted by flinching. Eric closed his eyes as this seemed to take too much out of him.

Betty has been able to get him to respond to her voice and open one or both eyes for a very short time since. For those of you that don't know Betty, you definitely can tell when Betty is in the room. Her voice is crisp, clear and loud but yet gentle and sweet. Eric seems to respond to Betty when she is talking about California or when she is telling him how cute he is.

I have been with him all night and anxious to see those beautiful eyes however; I'm giving him time to rest and have not tried to bother him. I will wait until the nurses are done giving him a bath and try to talk to him again (if they have not tired him too much).

I know this is not much and many are dismissing this, yet, I know in my heart that this is the beginning of his healing process and God's sign and response to all our prayers.

Thank you God and all of you for your caring, good thoughts and prayers and please keep the prayers going. I will update this again later today.

15 comments:

katie said...

“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen”. I know that all of us praying is why Eric has the strength that he has now. I'm very greatful that Eric has made it as far as he has. I'm also very greatful for this blog. Without it, I know that A lot of Eric's friends would be going crazy not knowing anything. Thank you very much. Everyone I know keeps Eric in there prayers. If anyone needs anything, please do not hesitate...celtic_love1982@sbcglobal.net..Thank You...Katie Meeker

Jeanne said...

WOW - what great news! I am so glad you didn't give up on him. I hope this progress continues and that you are able to see it today. Please keep us informed. I check your blog many, many times a day.

Our prayers will continue...

Jeanne (Donna's sister)

Anonymous said...

Sam and family,
I was so happy to read your update this morning! What wonderful news for all of you. I am still keeping you in my prayers and am anxious to read more good news as the days progress!

Melissa Harris

Anonymous said...

Sam posted our comments on yesterday by mistake please find them. Thanks Jane

Anonymous said...

Sam and Celeste
Hello,I'm Jeff Patton's wife and I saw the entry yesterday about the extended care facility. While I am very excited to read today's entry which may make this comment a mute point I did want to let you know your options.
I have worked & been in and around long-term care my whole life. I wanted to let you know that we have the ability to make arraingements for Eric to go to a Premier facility that is within an hour of Springfield where they have a on staff rotating Orthopedics/ Rehab Specialist. They will accept Eric with pending status for payer and such. This is an exceptional facility and as Eric would progress they could move him to one of their other facilities closer to Springfield in Vandalia. I have already spoke with the corporate admissions director and she feels confident they could get Eric in if he would need to leave the hospital.
I hope I'm not being to forward this just happens to be my area of expertise and I didn't want you to think Illinois was your only option. Please feel free to call us if you would have any questions about this or anything in general my mom is a nurse and my dad a nursing home administrator and respiratory therapist we also went through a similar accident with my uncle last year when a church bus pulled out in front of him on his motorcycle. 937-408-6940 cell or 937-788-2949 home.
Again we are very hopeful that Eric will continue to stay and rehab at the hospital but, if the need arises for him to move please let me know if you need anything.
Thank You,
Erin Patton

Anonymous said...

GOD BLESS THIS WONDERFUL DAY, im so happy to hear ERIC IS reaching through the darkness, finally gods light has embrassed him and brought him back to the ones who miss him. IM SO HAPPY FOR ERIC AND ALL HIS FAMILY FOR THIS HAPPY DAY. I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY AND KEEP MY FAITH CLOSE TO MY HEART, FOR FAITH IS WHAT HAS BROUGHT US THIS FAR.


MAY GOD CARRY YOU THROUGH THIS ERIC, AND MAY YOU GET THE CHANCE TO JOURNEY LIFE AGAIN ON YOUR OWN!!

Aut said...

YEAH!!! Ang had said last night something was going on and she was on the way to the hospital. And it looks like someone (above) may be able to get Eric into a place closer to family which is awesome news!
Now, lets all hope he continues to progress and a joint plan is figured out before we send Ang back to a war zone so she can keep her head on straight and not end up hurt as well.
Im so happy theres some good news!

Anonymous said...

Sam and Celeste,
I am so sorry to hear of Eric's tragic accident. As you know I went to Kenton Ridge with Eric and we had a lot of awesome times. I have many great memories of Eric and I. He is a true fighter and anyone that knows him knows this. I believe he is going to pull through this. The power of prayer is amazing and we can all see that from this mornings upadte. 3 days after we graduated from high school my step brother was in a tragic accicent. He was left in a condition that he would never recover. He fought for two and a half months but never made the progress Eric has already made. I know that this is a difficult time, but lets all keep our heads up and pray for the best.
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything you need please do not hesitate to call; home # 937-399-5404.
I am trying to arrange a dinner and Texas Hold'Em tournament to help with any medical expenses that Eric has.
I will take all of the help I can get. So all of us 1999 grads from Kenton Ridge; let's do this for Eric. Call me.
Angie, You are also in my thoughts and prayers. Keep your head up. We all know that you are strong. You also know that your brother is a fighter. He thinks a lot of you Ang and always has.
I will continue to check on Eric's progress daily.
Danyale and her family are also in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless All,
Lani (Brubaker) Atkins

Anonymous said...

I wanted to let you know that I am praying for Eric, and so is my small group from church. (which includes Thor and Katie Bisher) We will be meeting tonight, and will continue to pray for him. They say that prayer is more powerful when the same thing is prayed for in groups. We will also pray for your family and medical expenses. May God bless you and continue to take care of Eric.
God Bless,
Ashlie (Wade) Brown
KR class of 99

Anonymous said...

my name is lewis chambers i'm a real good friend of Eric's we grew up together. I am so happy that he is awake and responding. I'm currently out of town and wanting to visit Eric. I send my best wishes and prayers to Eric and his family. All of his friends are here for him and are wishing him the best.

Jennifer said...

Eric's family- I'm so happy to hear about the success that he's made. I continue to pray for he and his girlfriend. Keep your heads up and hopes high.

Anonymous said...

Praise the Lord. Prayer is so powerful. Bless your whole family. Stay strong for each other and keep your faith!

Anonymous said...

As one of Erics closest friends, I am really upset by this blog. It is not being truthful. HE IS NOT AWAKE AND HE IS NOT RESPONDING! I feel as if you are giving false hope. Eric would not want to live this way. He would be ashamed, and his pride would be hurt. He is a man of pride. He is a good man. I know what he would say he would say "let me go". The thought of him in a nursing home is worse that the thought of him dying. Why can't you understand that? If you knew him well enough you would know that Eric would not want to be if he could not be 100% period. That's him. Eric does not do anything half ass. HE WOULD NOT WANT TO LIVE A HALF ASS LIFE!!!!!!!! I do not believe that his best interest is in your heart. I believe that you are being sellfish. Who is Eric if he cannot fix cars, stereos, and take care of himself? I can tell you who, somebody that he would never want to be. He wouldn't want anybodys pity and he sure as hell wouldn't want someone taking care of him. So now what lies in store for him? Have you even thought about that?

Anonymous said...

I am also a very close friend of Eric's and I truely believe what you abov are saying. I do believe in gving him every chance he can to get better, but this is not the Eric we remember and this is not the Eric he would want to be. I have been through this and this is the hardest decision to be made. Let's all pray that the right decisions are made and Eric's best interest are put first. We all love him and want to keep him here, but this is about him and not us. Everyone kepp your heads high, God will direct us all the way we need to go and help with every decision made.

Anonymous said...

We all love you Eric and we are still praying for you. Not a day goes by that you are not in our prayers. Keep fighting as we know that you will.
Danyale you are also in our prayers. Keep up the fight so that you can try to help Eric in his recovery.