Sunday, October 22, 2006

4:54pm - My intention is not to paint a Rosy picture that everything is fine. It's not. Eric is still in critical condition and still in the intensive care unit. However; from a father's perspective, I see improvements everyday. Some that the doctors agree with and some that they say it's just reflex. I believe in God, hope and our son. Eric has always been healthy and strong. Even thou he's not a Taurus (like his dad) he is stubborn and will not give up easy. He always finds a way.

I also believe that all the prayers are helping him find his way back to us. So please keep him in your prayers.

Today, Eric is stable. He's at 30% oxygen (down from 80%). His temperature is back up to about 100. The doctors took him of the intravenous pain medication and only left him with the pain patch. He's opening his eyes more today but still seems fatigued. We did put some headphones on him and letting him listen to a storybook on CD to help stimulate the brain.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sam,
We, as parents of 4 grown children, understand what you are saying. You seeing things in a differenr perspective than others is perfectly alright. You are staying and thinking positive until proven different. We never give up on our children, no matter what the circumstances are. Keep your faith in God, we will keep you, your family and Eric in our prayers. Several times a day, I tell my husband, I have to go check on Eric. So, off to the computer room.
The Powells

Jeanne said...

Sam, I thank God you are not giving up on your son. At least from a 1000 miles away there seems to be hope.

There is no way that the people reading your blog should judge you and your family and the decisions that you make. You are there all the time, and we are not. You know your son and you have talked with his doctors. Who are we to judge you or the rest of your family? You need to make the right decisions based on what you see and what the doctors tell you - not what a reader of your blog thinks you should do.

As a parent, I would go to all lengths to keep my children alive if there was indeed true hope of a recovery - not in a vegetative state but as a high-functioning human being - maybe not perfect but someone that Eric would be happy being. It sounds like you are doing exactly that.

Today I added Eric and your family to our prayer chain at church.

Keep the faith!

Jeanne (Donna's sister)

Anonymous said...

Just an Update Danyale has been moved to Provena just a few blocks down from Carle... Room 4436 Rehab... We are happy to see better updates on Eric and we will continue to keep him and the family in our thoughts and prayers.
If you need to contact me for
anything please do not hesitate to call 217-260-6215 or 217-748-6544... I last saw Eric saturday before we left the hospital to move danyale and plan to visit again on Monday evening.
Have a peaceful night

Anonymous said...

Just an Update Danyale has been moved to Provena just a few blocks down from Carle... Room 4436 Rehab... We are happy to see better updates on Eric and we will continue to keep him and the family in our thoughts and prayers.
If you need to contact me for
anything please do not hesitate to call 217-260-6215 or 217-748-6544... I last saw Eric saturday before we left the hospital to move danyale and plan to visit again on Monday evening.
Have a peaceful night

Anonymous said...

Hi All... Today was a very positive day for Eric. He had his eyes open alot today. Now we have to work on getting him to be responsive. That's one of his biggest battles right now. A few of his friends got to come in and see him while he had his eyes open and I think that did a lot for them. I know it does for my family. We are trying to see what he's capable of. We should talk more to the neuro doc tomorrow. Lot's of questions for him. Thank you all for your thoughts, well wishes and prayers.

Anonymous said...

My thoughts and prayers are with your family and Eric daily. I'm thankful for this site to check his progress. Keep your faith and stay strong during this difficult time. God Bless
Krista See

Anonymous said...

Something that might also help to stimulate Eric's brain is classical music. It is used all of the time with Music Therapy. Music Therapy is used for lots of things and it does wonders for the brain. Eric and your family will continue to be in my prayers.

Anonymous said...

I do not know Eric or his family, but his story has truly touched me. I am a year younger than Eric and I don't want to imagine what my family would have to go through if something like this would happen to me. As parents, we never expect something like this to happen to our children. However, we can rest assured that God is always with us, even when we may question Him.

Everytime you have a negative thought or hear a negative comment, that is just Satan trying to beat you down. I commend you for wanting answers from the doctors. That kind of involvement could save Eric's life. Good luck and I will keep praying and checking up on Eric every day. God Bless.

Kat from Arthur, IL

Anonymous said...

Sam, Celeste, & Angie,

My name is Trent Coffman. Eric and I were among the best of friends when we were in grade school together. I remember the days of playing backyard football and Nintendo with Shawn Johnson, Trent Aldrich, and the rest of the neighborhood crew. Though those times are long past and our contact dwindled after I moved schools, I still talk and tell stories of Eric. It couldn't have been more than a week ago that I was telling my wife the story of how Sean Johnson's dad announced our Rolling Hills football games and gave us all nicknames Eric got to be Eric "Hands" Dyke, I was so jealous!

I just heard today via a chance meeting with Lewis Chambers at the Columbus Airport about Eric's accident. After contacting Angie earlier today, I have shared this story with my entire family. They all send their best wishes and Eric will be in our prayers. If you or anyone else on this blog needs my assistance, don't hesitate to call 614-499-1563 or send an email to s03.tcoffman@wittenberg.edu

Regards,

Mr. & Mrs. Trent Coffman & Family